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What is Dear Future Him All About?

Dear Future Him is all about my journey—a faith journey.


Settling for the wrong guy was an unwise decision, and I don't want to make that same mistake again. In fact, it scared me to the point that, for a long time, I didn't want to meet ANY guy, only to discover (again) that I've wasted my time.


So, I started writing my thoughts on what I wanted in a husband, not what I thought would be good for me. If I desired a God-ordained marriage like my parents have, then I needed to commit to the godly standards I set for myself now. After my divorce in 2014, I decided to be celibate until I meet my future husband. I've made lists of things that I can't accept in a potential mate—things that I had ignored in the past were absolute deal breakers. Now, I'm very serious about doing things differently, to the point where I won't even kiss a guy until my wedding day. I know my worth and my potential, and I don't need any distractions from what God has for me. Nor do I want to give away pieces of myself to just ANY guy. I belong to God.


So, I started writing my thoughts on the husband that I have asked God for. I believe that God has the man that my rib belongs to waiting for me. Well, either he is waiting for me to come into his life, or I'm waiting for him to get his life together (SMH). Either way, he does exist, and I can't help but get excited to meet him!


Dear Future Him has been so encouraging for me to continue hanging in there and trusting God to direct me to the right "Mr. Him". This blog wasn't created because I'm searching for a man. I have this blog because I'm getting to know ME. It's about my standards, growth, and what God wants for me.


Even if that means God doesn't allow me to meet "Dear Future Him".